People aren’t bad but some of them aren’t healthy in my life. The ones that aren’t healthy for me, for a certain phase of my life have been cut off. 

Cutting off people it doesn’t mean to be a ” bad person ” but it means to be strong enough to make the decision to take care of yourself.

Yourself is the most important thing you have. You, your identity, your personality,your brain,your smile. Happiness depend on you and nobody is allowed to take your dreams or your happiness away.

Often, to take care to yourself you need to be Selfish. Cutting people off can be seen as a selfish move. Say NO can be seen as a selfish move. I believe, more then be ” Selfish ” , the right word to use Is ” Selfcare